Hi hon, I’m sorry to hear this. I strongly believe any abuse without prior consent and outside the agreed boundaries set up between the both of you is wrong.
In my opinion if you ever are left questioning whether he has gone too far or not, then he has definitely gone too far, as you shouldn’t ever feel that way. A DD/LG relationship is built on a foundation of consent, communication, trust and love.
Did your daddy give you any aftercare after and make sure you are okay? If he didn’t that is another big NO-NO and judging by what you say he didn’t and verbally abused you as well.
Depending how you feel, if you think it was just a one off or he will change and respect and treat you properly then I would suggest talking to your daddy about it and explain to him that you don’t like him being so rough.
Otherwise you need to leave him immedietely, abusing women and using the excuse that he is a Dom or Daddy DOM is NOT okay ever.
There are sadly many fake “Daddies” out there that abuse little’s, they think because they label themselves as a Dom or Daddy Dom, it gives them the right to call a girl a slut or a whore and it entitles them to hit a girl around and can use them as their personal fuck toy and it’s their way for them to justify being a complete asshole.
Don’t accept it, you deserve better.